
I know it's no surprise to most of you that I like listening to sports talk radio. In fact, my radio dial rarely reaches over into FM, unless I'm going to KUER (the local NPR affiliate). My favorite sports talk program has to be Mike and Mike in the Morning from ESPN radio. It has a great premise - put an ex-jock who played in the NFL, Mike Golic, with an ESPN anchor noted for his sense of style and interest in pop culture, Mike Greenberg. They're a great match and it's an awesome program.
So, when I saw the Greeny had written a book I knew I wanted to give it a read. It was much different than I expected. Of course the root of the book is sports. Greenberg has been a sports junkie throughout most of his life, but the book is more than sports. In fact, I think the book is primarily about being a parent, a parent who wants to give your kids more time than is possible because of work.
The book is basically an ongoing journal than Greeny put together over the course of 6 or 7 years for his therapist. In its pages we get to see the funny parts of parenting, mixed together with the challenges of watching our kids grow too fast. The one issue I have with the idea of parenting for the Greenbergs is the fact that they have a live in nanny. Not that's there anything wrong with that, but it certainly changes the dynamic of having to change diapers at 2 am. At one point in the book Greeny is freaking out because his wife is leaving for a few days and he'll be alone with the kids, oh wait except he'll have Lourdes - the nanny with him. Still, it's now 2 on 2 instead of 3 on 2 and those "aren't good odds." You can all relate right?!
One comment in the book really stood out to me. Dr. Grey, the therapist, and Greeny were talking about how quickly his kids were growing up when they had the following exchange:
"The greatest frustration of getting older is when you begin to miss things that you didn't enjoy when they were happening. If you look up the word regret in the dictionary, that's what it should say.
I nodded. Actually, I nodded a long time. And as soon as we were done with the session I jotted the words down. They seem worth remembering."Those words are worth remembering. It seems like every time I turn around I'm so bogged down with the minutia of what's going on around me that I'm not taking the time to appreciate those little gems in life. Sure changing diapers isn't the greatest thing in the world, but imagine how I'll feel in 7 or 8 years when Kennedy won't let me near her. I know I'll miss the enjoyment of her needing me and wanting me around. What about Alex's desire to be held? Soon he'll be off and running on his own and then I won't have the chance to have him sleep on my chest. It was a pivotal moment in the book and it's certainly got me thinking about similar issues.
If you're interested in sports and life (even if you're only slightly interested in sports) this is a fun, quick read. I know I enjoyed looking in on another man's issues, even if I can only relate to some of them.