
I actually have three big brothers. One of them just happens to live in Phoenix and is turning 50 today. The reason I'm posting about this is because I haven't seen my brother, Richard, for at least six years. Richard moved to Phoenix about 20 years ago and we don't see him very often. So my other brother, Paul, hatched a plan a few weeks ago for all of us to surprise Richard in Phoenix for his big 50th birthday. I never thought we would pull it off, but after lots of white lies (mostly from Paul, we figure he's already going to hell!), 11 hours in a car with my parents and sisters (we sure did have a lot of potty breaks), a really scary room in Flagstaff reserved on the internet-(yes, you get what you pay for), and lots of Pepsi to keep us awake, we made it to Phoenix. This picture is of the padlocked door to the hot tub at the hotel in Flagstaff with what looked like a bullet hole in it. Lovely.

The plan was for us to meet Richard for dinner on Saturday. He thought he was just meeting Paul while in town for business. When Richard stepped into the room where all eleven of us were waiting to surprise him, it was awesome.

He was so surprised and didn't quite know what to do at first. He finally came in and the tears came. We all got a little misty eyed as Richard gave mom and dad hugs first, then we all got a great hug from our brother. He was really emotional and just kept saying, "I can't believe you are all here!" He was amazed. Those moments made up for all the driving and crappy hotels we encountered on the trip. It really was a special moment for our family.


We took lots of pictures and chatted and enjoyed our time together. We invited Richard to come and stay with us that night. We were crashing that night at my Aunt Connie's and Uncle Kent's house in Mesa. They were nice enough to turn their house over to the Houtz clan for the night. That can be pretty scary. We weren't sure if Richard would accept, but he was excited to spend time with us and came back with us. We ended up playing games, eating ice cream and cake and just enjoying a few moments together as a family for the first time in six years.
One of the highlights of the night was when my Uncle Kent (who has a great voice and can sing almost any song you request), pulled out his guitar and started playing some of the old songs from when we were little. He talked my mom into singing with him (who also has a great voice) and it was a memorable moment.

The best song of the night was the one about the old woman who swallowed a fly, but a close second was the funniest song I've ever heard about the old outhouse in the backyard. I never knew an outhouse could have so much going on! It was really neat to see my mom and her brother singing together.
We woke up the next morning to the smell of bacon, eggs and the best waffles I have ever eaten. My Aunt Connie is an excellent cook and made an amazing breakfast for all of us. My brother Richard is stick skinny (not sure where he came from), but I have never seen anyone put down that much food. It was a great meal! After cleaning up a little, we headed out. My brothers decided to drive home all in one day, but the rest of us decided to break it up. So we hit a couple of stores in Mesa, had some yummy ice cream, then drove to Page. We stayed in another mediocre (but much better than Flagstaff) hotel and drove the rest of the way home on Monday.
This trip had all the markings of a disaster written all over it. Yet, we pulled it off and had a perfect weekend with our family. So happy 50th, big brother. We love you and we are so glad we could spend this fun time with you!